Wednesday, March 10, 2010
Alright kiddies lets start at the source... Women are by nature emotional creatures; Men are by nature Assholes. Yet when you combine these two very different natures of the same species you get mass quantities of miscommunication, drama, emotional turmoil and tears. This is an obvious fact known by all, but the question remains... Why?
Want my opinion? (Doesn't matter you're getting it anyway)
Since the dawn of time women have been pre-disposed to think men should treat them badly. They equate emotional pain with love and drama for passion.
And while I believe that most men don't really put forth enough thought, effort, consideration or time into their relationships necessary to make them happy and productive, I believe the women are more at fault for this constant merry-go-round of stress, anxiety and the syndrome of being love sick.
Take a moment and think about your past relationships; the ones that really devastated you, the ones that caused you pain you never knew existed, the ones you thought were the loves of your life...
Did you find out what I did? That is was nothing more than a fairy tale?
After careful observation I realized that I simply took the reality of what we had in the relationship and mentally turned into the fairy tale I wanted!
I didn't see the real man I was dating. No, I did not see him for who and what he truly was, but rather I fashioned him to be the man I needed him to be. I took everything he really was and altered my view of him to fit the tailor made persona I wanted... My prince! Ha!
When he didn't (couldn't) live up to my expectations, I was angry and most of all disappointed.
The key to this discovery of mine is that we as humans, not just women but all humans: Want what we want plain and simple! We have the ability to reconstruct reality to fit the picture we see in our heads, the problem is that reality always sets back in and once again we have to accept that we are living a lie.